I recently joined a health club after spending the last 14 months working out at home because of the pandemic. I changed my diet and got serious about exercising. I lost 40 pounds and look amazing. I notice guys staring at me when I go to the gym. I’m torn about this. Is the ogling a compliment or weird and creepy? I’m not sure how I should take it. What do you think?
“I got married two months ago. My husband and I recently had our first big blowout. I had guy friends before him and want to go out with them without my husband. My husband says that’s wrong. He suspects that my guy friends and I may be more than platonic. He says if we were platonic than I should have no problem allowing him to tag along. That’s not the point. Should committed couples be allowed to go out with members of the opposite sex without their partner?”